Tag Archives: Dad

Amanda Portrait – Day 18 – Profile, 2 – And Dad

On this day in 2013, my dear Dad breathed his last — and left a wake of pure chaos. Apparently, he was the one policing factor that kept family members behaving at least somewhat like human beings. Unfortunately, his kids … Continue reading

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Amanda Portrait Day 13 – Birthday Pizza

When Amanda turned 41 in September 2011, we had a big party for her at the local hair salon. Entertainment was provided in the form of an accordion player. (!) Guests included the proprietor Betty, her now-husband Jim, Mom and Dad … Continue reading

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Amanda Portrait – Day 8

I call this, “The Two Golden Orbs.” The picture is from the weeks in 2013 following Dad’s death, when Amanda and I stayed in the motel room that Amanda called, “Our apartment.” Este slept on Amanda’s bed every night and … Continue reading

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Thanks In Retrospect

Happy Thanksgiving to all our friends! November 24th is also our Dad’s birthday. I miss him dearly. This picture is from 2002 – I think – when Dad rode Clifford in the 4th of July Parade on Drummond. Dad would … Continue reading

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The Problem With Anniversaries

Both my parents had the nerve to die on the day before a holiday. Mom died on December 31, 2010. Dad died on March 30, 2013. That year, March 30 fell on a Saturday, the day before Easter. So Dad … Continue reading

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